Donna Mills was in a long-term relationship with Richard Holland, but they never got married or had children.
The actress eventually adopted her now-daughter and put her career on hold.
She recently returned to Hollywood to play in “Dawn” and has made a splash with her Instagram photo.
Donna Mills has only had one long-term partner, Richard Holland. He wore many hats, from being a writer, a producer, a rock guitarist, and more.
The two remained together for several years before splitting up. They were unmarried with children, but Mills was content with where and who she was.
In 1983, after dating Holland for half a decade, a 37-year-old Mills spoke about her perspective on her relationship status as a happily unwed woman. The actress expressed:
“I don’t see any more security in being married than in not being married.”
The two resided in different houses as a testament to their non-commital yet serious entanglement. However, Mills admitted that there was a certain point where the two were basically cohabitating.
After Mills and Holland split, the actress focused, not on romantic relationships but her career. Although she said she didn’t have an aversion to having children, her focus on climbing the industry ladder got in the way. In her own words, she said:
“I was very concentrated on my career, but at a certain point, I realized there was something missing — it was a child.”
Mills explained that in her fifties, she began to recognize the heights of her baby fever when she had finished many of her projects. The actress recalled her jealousy toward mothers and their loving interactions with their children.
At 54 years old, Mills adopted a four-day-old girl she named Chloe despite concerned reactions regarding her age at the time. She recalled:
“By that time, I was 54, and people said, ‘You’re going to be so old [to] have a little toddler running around.’ I never felt that. I never felt older than the other mothers who were probably in their 20s.”
She also spoke about reactions to her adoption of a child of color, stating that no one in her life had expressed any opinions. However, the doting mother did choose to join an organization that helped her address possible issues, such as looking after Chloe’s hair.
Mills does not only defend the choice of having a child so late in life but actively encourages it.
Mills decided to focus entirely on motherhood after welcoming Chloe because of how much she made throughout her successful career. In fact, at the height of her career, she gave up almost two decades of work to devote her time to Chloe. The actress recalled:
“Motherhood was what I wanted to experience, and so for 18 years, I really stopped doing everything else.”
She remembered still working in the film industry in the beginning stages of her motherhood, but when her daughter began her education, she prioritized parenthood.
Mills does not only defend the choice of having a child so late in life but actively encourages it. She expressed that it is excellent timing for individuals who want to build a successful career first.
According to the loving mother, she has maintained a close bond with her daughter, spending regular time together and keeping in consistent contact.
Mills continues to defy aging norms as she unapologetically refuses to go down the path of cosmetic enhancements.
Hitting 82 years old and with her daughter at 28, age continues to be a non-factor in Mills’ life. She returned to Hollywood via an upcoming movie, “Dawn,” and recently took to Instagram to share a photo from the film, where her hair is shorter and gray. In the caption, she wrote:
“They say blondes have more fun…but I’m loving this white, what do you think?”
This photo perfectly captures an unafraid woman who embraces the aging process, with her caption implying this refreshing approach to life.
Individuals in the comment section praised Mills for her gorgeous picture. One commenter expressed that the actress would suit any hair color, with two exclaiming she is “beautiful no matter what.” One follower commented:
“It makes your beautiful eyes pop even more than they usually do!”
Instagram user _maid_to_the_stars wrote that Mills had not aged a day, while another expressed that the performer and mother looked like an “angel” and was “stunningly beautiful.” So far, the post has reached just over 8000 likes.
Mills continues to defy aging norms as she unapologetically refuses to go down the path of cosmetic enhancements or plastic surgery.
Commenting on this, she spoke about someone asking why she hasn’t considered cosmetic enhancements, with the actress confidently responding: “No, because I’m not going to look like a duck. I’d rather have lines than a duck bill.”
Another actress who recently challenged societal expectations regarding age is “Big Bang” alum Mayim Bialik who was unafraid to show off her gray hair online.
